Why I love Futanari
by Reed James
I am a lover of Futanari, which has always surprised me. I’m a heterosexual guy, I’ve never been interested in guy-on-guy action. I love women. I love everything about them: their faces, smiles, hair, breasts, hips, calves, thighs, asses, and pussies. And yet, you put a dick on a girl, and leave everything else the same, and it becomes even sexier.
There is something so erotica about a beautiful woman with a dick fucking another woman. It’s like all the fun of guy-on-gal porn without the guy’s hairy ass filling up the frame of the camera (the worse shot in porn, by the way, is that low angle shot where all you can really see is the guy’s ass going up and down and occasionally you see some penetration). It’s probably why I like girl-on-girl porn so much, not ugly guys getting in the way of looking at some beautiful women being naughty.
Now here’s the weird thing. I’m not a fan of real transgender men/women. Real pics of a gal with dick don’t do anything for me. Anime pics of dickgirls=hot. Reading about dickgirls=hot. Seeing a man or woman that’s started the transgender process=not hot. I really don’t why, until I did some research.
Ogi Ogas, Ph.D. and Sai Gaddam, Ph.D. have studied why heterosexual men are attracted to this subset of porn and have dubbed it the Erotical Illusion. They cross of very feminine figures with penises distorts sexual cues and makes something novel, and since our brains are wired to seek out novel experiences, intense, sexual arousal follows. You can read more on their article here which goes into greater detail about many subsets of erotica: slash fiction, shemale, humantauria, and talks about male Erotical Illusions versus female Erotical Illusions.
So why can I be aroused by an anime pic of a hot girl with a dick and not be aroused by an actual transgendered person with a pair and breasts and a dick? It’s an illusion. I think of the dickgirl as being first and foremost a girl, and it’s hard for me to think of a real person with a dick as anything but a guy, no matter how great her boob job might be. Thanks to the Erotical Illusion, it keeps me firmly believing in my heterosexual masculinity when I’m spanking it to a hot chick with a dick fucking another hot chick!
I have a few Futanari stories in the work. I’m writing one in a series called Futanari Massage where women get more than they bargained for and learn to love dickgirls as much as I do!
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Very thoughtful insights into why futanari is so popular with heterosexual men.
Thanks Bella! It confused me sometimes why I was so turned on by a girl with a cock. Always nice to know the science behind certain things.
Futari and Erotical Illusions are just such pretty words and phrases!
Yeah. Erotical Illusion. Such a great term to describe the phenomena.
Don’t forget that in written erotica, you can get inside the characters’ heads, while with pictures and movies, all you see are their bodies. Words leave your mind free to paint its own images, to resolve the transgender “contradiction” however you wish. You get to see the inner gender without being distracted by the outer flesh, which draws a clear line between “guy with boobs” and “girl with dick.”
Very good point.
Does this mean that we’re jaded? 🙂
Probably. 🙂
Oh I’ll have to look into those studies! And by the way, do you have an opinion on futa-on-futa, or do you enjoy it as much as futa-on-female? 🙂
I enjoy futa-on-futa as much. It’s lots of fun to write.